The Great Women of Islam
In the name of Allah, Who is the most Beneficent and the most
Merciful.
Hazrat Anâs (RA) reports that Nabî (SAW) has said: “From
among the women of the world who have reached perfection and who are worthy of
are as: Maryam (AS) the daughter of Imrân; Khadija daughter of Khuwailid;
Fatima daughter of Muhammad and Asiyah (AS) wife of Fir’aun” (Tirmidhi)
The scholars of
hadîth are of the view that this statement was made before Syeda Aisha (RA)
reached the position of excellence whereupon Nabî (SAW) said: “The virtue of
Aisha (RA) over all the women of the world is like the virtue of tharîd [a meat
dish] over all other food.”
The hadith however bring up to four women who attained excellence
in faith and character by virtue of their religious fervor, patience, hard
work and morality. Their lives radiated with piety, trust, patience and
gratitude. Their lives serve as beacons of guidance for all believers,
especially in times of hardship, difficulty and struggle.
1.
Hazrat Maryam (AS)
Maryam (AS) the daughter of Imrân:
Allah reveals that "Allah chose Prophet Adam and Prophet Nuh, and the
family of Prophet Ibrahim and the family of 'Imran, over all other
beings-descendants one of the other..." (Surah Al 'Imran:
33-34). In other words, 'Imran's family descended from the Prophet Adam (AS), Prophet
Nuh (AS), and Prophet Ibrahim (AS), and they were dignified people. One of
these chosen people was Hazrat Maryam (AS), whose family sincerely believed in
Allah, respected the limits that He has established for humanity, and always
sought and trusted Him.
Then `Imran's wife, a sincere believer, found out that she
was pregnant with Hazrat Maryam (AS), she immediately prayed to Allah. She
praised Him and promised that she would dedicate her child to Him. When she
gave birth to a girl, she named her Maryam, which means to abide, in other
words someone who relentlessly worships Allah. Allah reveals her prayer in the
following verse:
Remember when the wife of 'Imran
said: "My Lord, I have vowed to You whatever is in my womb, to be devoted
[to Your service]. Please accept it from me. You are the All-Hearing, the
All-Knowing." When she gave birth, she said: "My Lord! I have given
birth to a girl"-and Allah knew very well what she had given birth to,
male and female are not the same-"and I have named her Maryam and placed
her and her children in Your safekeeping from Satan, the accursed." (Surah
Al 'Imran: 35-36)
True freedom can be achieved only by serving Allah,
surrendering to Him, and freeing oneself from all service to any other beings
or values. This is what 'Imran's wife prayed for when dedicating Maryam to
Allah, for she wished her daughter to be someone who served only Allah and who
did not seek her people's or society's acceptance.
Right after Hazrat Maryam's birth, her mother turned
toward Allah, sought His good pleasure, and asked Him to protect Maryam, as
well as her children, from Satan's evil. Allah accepted this wholehearted
prayer "and made Hazrat Maryam (AS) grow in health and beauty" (Surah Al 'Imran: 37). In other words, Hazrat Maryam
received the best upbringing and the most superior character.
Hazrat Maryam's mother's wholehearted faith in Allah,
acceptance of only Allah as her mentor, constant turning toward Him, and her
genuine surrender to Him are very important examples upon which all believers
should reflect.
Hazrat Maryam, like the rest of her family, was known
among her people for her devotion to Allah as well as her religiosity,
chastity, and sincerity. Allah speaks of her as someone obedient to Him.
And Maryam, the
daughter of 'Imran, who guarded her chastity-We breathed Our Spirit into her.
She confirmed the Words of her Lord and His Book, and was one of the obedient.
(Surat at-Tahrim: 12)
… and she who
guarded her chastity. We breathed into her some of Our Spirit and made her and
her son a Sign for all the worlds. (Surat al-Anbiya': 91)
Some miracles
Meeting of Hazrat Maryam (AS) with Hazrat Jibril (AS)
. Hazrat Maryam experienced many miracles
throughout her life. One of these was
her meeting with Hazrat Jibril (AS). Once, when she left her family and society
and went toward the east, she met Hazrat Jibril (AS), who
appeared to her in the form of a well-built man:
Mention Maryam in the Book, how she
withdrew from her people to an eastern place and concealed herself from them.
Then We sent Our Spirit to her, and it took on for her the form of a handsome,
well-built man. (Surah Maryam:
16-17)
Not knowing who this man was, she sought refuge with Allah
and told him that she held Allah in the utmost fear and respect: "She
said: 'I seek refuge from
you with the All-Merciful, [leave me] if you have fear [and respect] of
Allah'" (Surah Maryam: 18).
Her words clearly demonstrate her complete trust in Allah, as well as the
importance she placed upon chastity and devotion to Allah. Her words not only
expressed all of this, but also called upon this unknown man to have fear and
respect of Allah.
Hazrat Jibril (AS) introduced himself with the following
words: "I am only your
Lord's messenger [an angel] so that He can give you a pure boy" (Surah
Maryam: 19). As the Qur'an recounts:
When the angels said: "Maryam, your Lord gives you good news of a Word from Him.
His name is the Messiah, 'Isa, son of Maryam, of high esteem in this world and
the Hereafter, and one of those brought near." (Surah Al 'Imran: 45)
Hazrat Maryam replied: "How can I have a boy when no
man has touched me and I am not an unchaste woman?" (Surah Maryam: 20),
thereby indicating her chastity. Hazrat Jibril (AS) told her that:
He [Jibril] said:
"It will be so." Allah creates whatever He wills. When He decides on
something, He just says to it, "Be!" and it is. (Surah Al 'Imran: 47)
He said: "It will be so." Your Lord says: "That is
easy for Me. It is so that We can make him a Sign for humanity and a mercy from
Us. It is a matter already decreed." So she conceived him and withdrew
with him to a distant place. (Surah Maryam: 21-22)
By Allah's will, Hazrat Maryam (AS) became pregnant with
Prophet 'Isa (AS) and yet remained a virgin. Her pregnancy was independent of
this world's usual cause-and-effect relationship. The circumstances of his
conception were among the features of Prophet 'Isa's (as) miracles.
A role model for
Muslim women
The Qur'an, the only true guidance for humanity, was
revealed so that people would know how to deal with all of the situations that
they may encounter while in this world. In addition, the Sunnah (example) of
our Prophet (saas) shows how to implement its teachings into one's life. Allah
even made it possible for people to understand how to live the Qur'an's
morality by giving examples from the Prophets' and other Muslims' lives: "There is an excellent example in them for you to follow,
that is for those whose hope is in Allah and the Last Day. But if anyone turns
away, Allah is the Rich Beyond Need, the Praiseworthy" (Surat al-Mumtahana: 6) and"We have sent down Clear Signs to you, the example of those
who passed away before you, and an admonition for those who guard against evil" (Surat
an-Nur: 34). In these verses, He reminds sincere Muslims, who hope for the best
in Hereafter, that the people presented in the Qur'an serve as good examples and
guidance for them.
One of these sincere Muslims is Hazrat Maryam (AS), one of the two women noted for
their exemplary characters: "Allah has made an example for those who
believe: the wife of Pharaoh, when she said: 'My Lord, build a house in the
Garden for me in Your presence, rescue me from Pharaoh and his deeds, and
rescue me from this wrongdoing people.' And Hazrat Maryam, the daughter of 'Imran, who guarded
her chastity-We breathed Our Spirit into her. She confirmed the Words of her
Lord and His Book, and was one of the obedient" (Surat at-Tahrim: 11-12).
Therefore, every believer is responsible for learning about Maryam's good
character from the Qur'an, which gives the most accurate information, and
trying to emulate her.
Hazrat Maryam (AS)
as having the ideal Muslim woman's character
Allah introduces Hazrat Maryam (AS) as having the ideal
Muslim woman's character. This character is completely different than the
common character of women in today's unbelieving societies, where they usually
share a common socially acceptable character handed down from their ancestors.
In these societies, men and women are expected to conform to very different
sets of character traits, for men's ideals, worldview, lifestyle, and
evaluation of events are believed to be different from those of women.
According to the Qur'an, however, men and women have the
same responsibilities and a character, for Allah refers to an ideal Muslim
character. He defines the Islamic character in the following verse:
Men and women who are Muslims, men
and women who are believers, men and women who are obedient, men and women who
are truthful, men and women who are steadfast, men and women who are humble,
men and women who give charity, men and women who fast, men and women who guard
their chastity, men and women who remember Allah much: Allah has prepared
forgiveness for them and an immense reward. (Surat al-Ahzab: 35)
As this verse shows, each person's character is not
determined by his or her society's values or continuing traditions, but by the
ideal Muslim character. Any woman who adopts this character will have the
strongest and the most solid personality possible. And by implementing it in
her life, she will win Allah's good pleasure and love, instead of striving to
attain status or superiority in her society.
She was one of the
chosen women on Earth
According to historical sources, Allah honored Hazrat Maryam
(AS), who lived approximately two millennia ago, with the birth of Prophet 'Isa
(AS). She was one of the chosen women on Earth as well as in the Hereafter.
Born in Roman-occupied Palestine, she was a Jewess and lived in the Jewish
community.
Idolatry was Rome's state religion. The Jews, once a
nation preferred by Allah "over all other beings" (Surat al-Baqara:
47), had altered His religion, adopted false beliefs, rebelled against Allah's
commands, and were no longer grateful for His gifts to them. Some of them even
murdered the Prophets sent to them by the grace of Allah, because the Jews did
not like the commands that these exalted men convey. The Qur'an reveals their
transgressions:
We made a covenant with the tribe of Israel and sent
Messengers to them. Each time a Messenger came to them with something their
lower selves did not desire, they denied some and they murdered others. (Surat al-Ma'ida: 70)
Maryam was born at a chaotic time, when the Jews' only
hope was their expected Messiah (savior). Unknown to her, Allah had already
determined to choose and raise her for this holy duty. She was central to the
Israelites' expectations, for she would give birth to Prophet 'Isa (AS), whom
He compliments in the following terms: "His name is
the Messiah, 'Isa, son of Maryam, of high esteem in this world and the
Hereafter, and one of those brought near. He will speak to people in the cradle
and when fully grown, and will be one of the believers" (Surah Al
'Imran: 45-46).
Allah chose Hazrat Maryam (AS) to represent morality and
true religion among her people, who had left the true religion and embraced
superstitions and idle speculation. Allah reveals many aspects of her life,
among them her birth and family, the birth of Prophet 'Isa (AS), her superior
character, and how she resisted her society's slanders and accusations.
2. Hazrat Khadija (RA), the Daughter of Khuwailid
Hazrat Abdullah ibn Jafar (RA) reported that he heard
Sayyiduna Ali (RA) say in Kufa that Allah's Messenger, (RA) said, "The best of the women of
her time was Maryam, daughter of Imran, and the best of the women of her time
was Khadijah, daughter of Khuwaylid."
Hazrat
Khadija (RA) was extraordinarily wise, intelligent, gentle, and persuasive called
Tahira meaning chaste and pure even in the era of ignorance. She was extremely
wealthy and a prosperous business woman. She married Nabî (SAW) at the age of
forty while he was twenty five. She provided the moral, financial, and
emotional support for Nabî (SAW) when he was blessed with Nubuwat. When Nabî (SAW)
first saw Jibra’îl (AS) in the cave of Hira, he was terrified and feared for
his life. He ran down the mountain trembling and crying: “Cover me up! Cover me
up!” It was Hazrat Khadija (RA) who consoled him; she was his pillar of
support; she believed in him when everyone else doubted him. She served as his
refuge, consoled him, supported him and cared for him when he was alone,
confused and terrified. She stood by him when everyone else shunned him. Hazrat
Khadija (RA) rallied to the call of Islam, she gave a home to Nabî (SAW), she
was his first confidant, and tower of strength.
Biography
of Hazrat Khadijah (R.A)
Hazrat Khadijah (RA) was the first to embrace Islam and
confessed that her husband was the Messenger of Allah (RA). She came from a
noble family. Her father Khuwaylid had been one of the most honoured leaders of
their tribe until he was killed in battle. Her husband had also died, leaving
her a very wealthy woman. When Muhammad (SAW) was still a young man, she
entrusted him with some of her wealth, asking him to trade with it in Syria on
her behalf. He was already well known for his honesty, truthfulness and
trustworthiness. He returned from Syria after having made a large profit for
Khadijah.
After hearing his account of the journey, she decided
that he would make the best of the husbands, even though many of the most
important nobles of the Quraish had already proposed to her and had been
refused, and in due course she proposed to him. After the Prophet's uncle, Hazrat
Abu Talib (RA), had given the proposal of marriage, so the marriage between Hazrat
Muhammad (SAW) and Khadijah (RA) was took place. At the time of the marriage,
the Prophet (SAW) was twenty-five years old, while Hazrat Khadijah (RA) was
forty years old.
The more Hazrat Khadijah
(RA) came to know about her husband, the more she loved and respected him.
Everyone in Makka called him 'al-Amin', which means 'the trustworthy one', and
she, more than anyone else, knew how fitting this name was. It became
Muhammad's custom each year to spend the month of Ramadan in isolation in a
cave on the mountain of Hira, which is on the outskirts of Makka. Hazrat Khadijah
would always make sure that he was provided with food and drink during his
retreat. Towards the end of one Ramadan, when he was forty and Khadijah
fifty-five, Muhammad (SAW) suddenly appeared at their house in the middle of
the night, trembling with fear and saying, "Cover me up, cover me
up!"
Hazrat Khadijah (RA) was very alarmed to see him in such
a state. Quickly she wrapped a blanket around his shoulders and, when he had
calmed down, she asked him to describe exactly what had happened. He told her
how a being whom he had never seen before - in fact it was the angel Jibril - had
suddenly appeared to him while he was asleep and had said, "Read!"
"But I cannot read," he had replied, for he was
unlettered and could neither read nor write. "Read!" the angel had
repeated, clasping Muhammad close to his chest. "I cannot read," he
had repeated. "Read!" the angel had repeated, firmly embracing him
yet again. "What shall I read?" he had asked in desperation, and the
angel had replied:
Read, in the Name of thy Lord who created, created man
from a clot, Read, and thy Lord is the Most Gracious, Who taught with the pen,
taught man what he did not know.(Quran 96:1-5)
Although Muhammad (SAW) did not fully realize it at the
time, this was the beginning of the revelation of the Qur'an; but in that first
encounter with the angel Jibril, Muhammad (SAW) was very frightened, for he did
not know who the angel Jibril was or what was happening. He woke up and ran out
of the cave only to find Jibril still in front of him, and whenever he turned
away from him, there Jibril was in front of him yet again, filling the horizon
with his mighty yet beautiful form.
"Oh Muhammad," said Jibril eventually,
"you are the Messenger of Allah and I am Jibril," and with these
words he disappeared from Muhammad's sight.
After the angel had disappeared Muhammad (SAW) had
clambered down the mountain as fast as he could run, not knowing if he was
going mad and imagining things, or if he had been possessed by one of the jinn.
As she listened to Muhammad's (SAW) words, Hazrat Khadijah
(RA) did not share any of these fears. She realized that something tremendous
and awe-inspiring had happened to her husband, and she was certain, knowing him
as she did, that he was neither mad nor possessed. "Do not worry,"
she said, "for by Him who has dominion over Khadijah's soul, I hope that
you are the Prophet of this nation. Allah would never humiliate you, for you
are good to your relatives, you are true to your word, you help those who are
in need, you support the weak, you feed the guest and you answer the call of those
who are in distress."
When Muhammad (SAW) as a little more relaxed, Hazrat Khadijah
(RA) took him to see her cousin, Waraqa ibn Nawfal, for he was a man of
knowledge, and she was sure that he would be able to explain the meaning of
what had just happened to her beloved husband. Waraqa had studied the books of
both the Jews and the Christians very closely and he had learned a great deal
from many of their wisest people. He knew that the coming of another Prophet
had been foretold by both Moses and Jesus, peace be on them, and he knew many
of the signs that would confirm the identity of this Prophet when he appeared.
After listening closely to his story, Waraqa, who was
both old and blind, exclaimed, "This is the same being who brought the
revelations of Allah to Moses. I wish I was young and could be alive when our
people will drive you out."
"Will they drive me out?" asked Muhammad (SAW)
"Yes," replied Waraqa. "No one has come
with what you have been given without being treated with enmity; and if I were
to live until the day when you are turned out, then I would support you with
all my might. Let me just feel your back." So, saying, Waraqa felt between
the Prophet's shoulder-blades and found what he was feeling for: a small round,
slightly raised irregularity in the skin, about the size of a pigeon's egg.
This was yet another of the many signs that Waraqa already knew would indicate
the identity of the next Prophet after Jesus, (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him).
"This is the Seal of the Prophet Hood!" he
exclaimed. "Now I am certain that you are indeed the Prophet whose coming
was foretold in the Torah that was revealed to Moses and in the Injil that was
revealed to Jesus, (pbut) You are indeed the Messenger of Allah, and the being
who appeared to you on the mountain was indeed the angel Jibril!"
Hazrat Khadijah (RA) as both overjoyed and awed to find
that her understanding of what had happened on the mountain had been confirmed.
Not long after this incident, Muhammad (SAW) was commanded in a subsequent
revelation from Allah, through the angel Jibril, to call people to worship
Allah only, and it was at this point that Khadijah did not hesitate in
expressing in public what she had now known for certain in secret for some
time: " I bear witness that there is no god except Allah," she said,
"and I bear witness that Muhammad (SAW) is the Messenger of Allah."
In the years that followed, difficult years in which the
leaders of the Quraish did everything in their power to stop the Prophet
spreading his message, Hazrat Khadijah (RA) was a constant source of help and
comfort to Muhammad (SAW) in the difficulties which he had to face. All her
wealth was spent in the way of Allah, helping to spread the message of her
husband, helping to free slaves who had embraced Islam, and helping to feed and
shelter the community of Muslims that slowly but surely began to grow in
numbers and strength.
The Quraish were infuriated by the Prophet's success and did
everything in their power to discourage both him and his followers, often
inflicting awful tortures on them, but without success. The situation became so
bad that the Prophet told some of his followers to go to Abyssinia, where their
ruler, the Negus, who was a sincere Christian gave them shelter and protection.
Eventually there came a time when, as Waraqa had foretold, Muhammad and his
followers -along with all the members of his tribe, the Banu Hashim were driven
out of the city of Mecca and forced to camp out in a small ravine in the
mountains nearby. This happened long after Waraqa had died, and about seven
years after that extraordinary night of power in which Muhammad (SAW) had
received the first revelation of Quran through the angel Jibril. There, while
their homes lay empty in Mecca, the Muslims were exposed to the bitterly cold
nights of winter and the fiery hot days of summer, with very little food and
shelter. No one would buy and sell with the Muslims, or allow their sons and
daughters to marry any of them. Fortunately those who secretly sympathized with
the Muslims would send what food they could to them whenever the chance arose,
sometimes by loading provisions onto a camel or a horse and then sending it off
at a gallop in the direction of the camp, hoping that the animal would not stop
or get lost before it reached its intended destination.
For three years the small Muslim community lived a life
of hardship and deprivation, but although they suffered from hunger and thirst,
and from exposure to heat and cold, this was a time in which the hearts of the
first Muslims were both purified and also filled with the light of knowledge
and wisdom. The Muslims knew that they were following the truth, and so nothing
else mattered. They did not care what the Quraish did to them or said about
them. Allah and His Messenger were enough for them!
It was during this period that the Muslims who had sought
shelter in Abyssinia returned, only to find the situation even worse than when
they had left it. Not long after, many of them returned to Abyssinia, their
numbers swelled by those whom the Prophet (SAW) had told to accompany them.
Finally the boycott was lifted and the Muslims were allowed to reenter the
city; but the three years of hardship had taken their toll. First of all the
Prophet's uncle, Abu Talib, who was by then more than eighty years old, died;
and then a few months later, during the month of Ramadan, Khadijah also died,
at the age of sixty-five, may Allah be pleased with her. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
mourned her deeply. They had shared twenty-five years of marriage together and
she had given birth to five of his children. Only one of the Prophet's future
wives, Maria the Copt, would give him another child, Ibrahim, and he, like
Qasim, was destined to die when he was still very young, at the age of eighteen
months.
Hazrat Khadijah (RA) had been the first to publicly accept Muhammad
(SAW) as the Messenger of Allah, and she had never stopped doing all she could
to help him. Love and mercy had grown between them, increasing in
quality and depth as the years passed by, and not even death could take this
love away. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) never stopped loving Khadijah, and
although he married several more wives in later years and loved them all, it is
clear that Khadijah always had a special place in his heart. Indeed whenever
'Aisha, his third wife, heard the Prophet speak of Khadijah, or saw him sending
food to Khadijah's old friends and relatives, she could not help feeling
jealous of her, because of the love that the Prophet still had for her.
Once Hazrat Aisha (RA) asked him if Hazrat Khadijah (RA) had
been the only woman worthy of his love. The Prophet (SAW) replied: "She
believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected
me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a
helping hand." It had been related by Abu Hurairah (RA) that on one
occasion, when Hazrat Khadijah (RA) was still alive, Jibril came to the Prophet
(SAW) and said, "O Messenger of Allah, Hazrat Khadijah (RA) is just coming
with a bowl of soup (or food or drink) for you. When she comes to you, give her
greetings of peace from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news of a
palace of jewels in the Garden, where there will be neither any noise nor any
tiredness." After the Prophet's uncle, Abu Talib, and his first wife, Hazrat
Khadijah (RA) had both died in the same year, the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and
his small community of believers endured a time of great hardship and persecution
at the hands of the Quraish. Indeed the Prophet, who was now fifty years old,
name this year 'the Year of Sorrow.'
In private his dearest wife was no longer present to
share his life; and in public the insults that he received from the Quraish
multiplied, now that he had no longer had the protection of his dead uncle.
Even when he journeyed to Ta'if, a small city up in the mountains outside
Mecca, to call its people to worship Allah, he was rejected and stoned by them.
It has been related by Aisha that on his way back to Mecca, Jibril appeared to
the Prophet (SAW) and said, "Allah, may He be exalted and glorified, has
heard what the people have said to you and how they have responded to your
invitation, and he has sent the angel in charge of the mountains so that you
can tell him what you want him to with them." Then the angel in charge of
the mountains called out to him and greeted him and said, "O Muhammad,
Allah has listened to what your people have said to you. I am the angel in
charge of the mountains, and your Lord has sent me so that you can order me to
do whatever you want. If you wish, I can bring the mountain of the outskirts of
Mecca together so that they are crushed between them." But the Messenger
of Allah (SAW) said to him, "Rather I hope that Allah will make their
descendants a people who will worship Allah alone, without ascribing any
partners to him."
It was a while after this that following Surah was
revealed:
In the name of Allah, the
Merciful, the Compassionate
By the morning hours, and by the night when it is stillest, Your
Lord has not for sake you nor does He hate you, And truly what comes after will
be better for you than what has come before, And truly your Lord will give to
you so that you will be content. Did he not find you an orphan and protect you?
Did he not find you wandering and guide you? Did he not find you destitute and
enrich you? So do not oppress the orphan, And do not drive the beggar away, And
speak about the blessings of Your Lord. (Quran 93:1-11)
And so it happened. After three years of constant
struggle, a relative of his, called Khawla, went to him and pointed out that
his house was sadly neglected and that his daughters needed a mother to look
after them. "But who can take the place of Hazrat Khadijah (RA)?" he
asked. "Aisha, the daughter of Abu Bakr, the dearest of people to
you," she answered. Abu Bakr (RA) had been the first man to accept Islam
and he was the Prophet's closest companion. Like Hazrat Khadijah (RA), he had
done all that he could do to help the Prophet (SAW), and had spent all his
wealth in the way of Allah. However , while the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was now
fifty-three years old, Hazrat Aisha (RA) as only a little girl of seven. She
was hardly in a position to look after either the Prophet's household or
children. "She is very young." Replied the Prophet. Khawla had a
solution for everything. She suggested that he marry at the same time a lady
called Sawda, the widow of Al-Sakran ibn 'Am
3.
Hazrat Fatima (RA), the
Daughter of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
Introduction
The Holy Prophet (SAW) would often say: “Fatima is of my
flesh, he who angers her, angers me” (Bukhari & Muslim)
The Holy Prophet also (SAW) said: “Whoever injures (bodily
or otherwise) Fatima, he injures me; and whoever injures me injures Allah; and
whoever injures Allah practices unbelief. O Fatima! If your wrath is incurred,
it incurs the wrath of Allah; and if you are pleased, it makes Allah pleased,
too.”
Hazrat Fatima (RA) was the youngest Daughter
of the Holy Prophet (SAW): She was the mother of
Hazrat Imam Hassan (RA) and Hazrat Imam Hussain (RA). Her mother was Hazrat Khadija
(RA) daughter of Khuwaylid. She was born in Mecca on a Friday (615 AD), the
20th of Jumada II in the fifth year after the declaration of the Prophetic
message.
Hazrat Fatima (RA) passed away on the
14th of Jumada I of 11 A.H.
which corresponded to August 7, 632 A.D. at the age of 18 years .She was buried
somewhere in the graveyard of Jannatul-Baqi' in Medina in an unmarked and
unknown grave. According to her will, her husband, Hazrat Ali (RA), did not
leave any marks identifying her grave, and nobody knows where it is. According
to Shiite Muslims, she was the only daughter of the Holy Prophet (SAW).
Her Names
Hazrat Fatima (RA) has nine names or titles:
- Fatima ,
- al-Siddiqa (the truthful one),
- al-Mubaraka (the blessed one),
- al-Tahira (the pure one),
- al-Zakiyya (the chaste one),
- al-Radhiayya (the grateful one),
- al-Mardhiyya (the one who shall be pleased [on Judgment Day]),
- al-Muhaddatha (the one, other than the Prophet, to whom an angel speaks) and
- Al-Zahra (the splendid one).
The Prophet (SAW) taught Hazrat Fatima (RA) divine knowledge and endowed her with special intellectual
brilliance, so much so that she realized the true meaning of faith, piety, and
the reality of Islam. But Hazrat Fatima (RA) also was a witness to sorrow and a life of anguish from
the very beginning of her life. She constantly saw how her revered father was
mistreated by the unbelievers and later how she herself nfell a victim to the
same abuse, only this time by some “Muslims”.
Her Birth
Hazrat Khadija (RA) narrates the
following about the birth of her well-regarded daughter: “At the time of
Fatima’s birth, I sent for my neighboring Qurayshite women to assist me. They
flatly refused, saying that I had
betrayed them by marrying and supporting Muhammad. I was perturbed for a while
when, to my great surprise, I saw four strange tall women with halos around
their faces approaching me.
Finding me dismayed, one of them
addressed me thus, ‘O Khadija! I am Sarah, mother of Ishaq (Isaac). The other
three are: Maryam mother of Christ, Asiya daughter of Muzahim and Umm Kulthum
sister of Moses. We have all been commanded by God to put our nursing knowledge
at your disposal.’ Saying this, all of them sat around me and rendered the
services of midwifery till my daughter Fatima was born.”
The motherly blessings and affection
received by Hazrat Fatima (RA) were only for five years after which Hazrat Khadija
(RA) left for her heavenly home. The Holy Prophet (RA) brought her up
thereafter.
Her Marriage
When Fatima came of age, a number of
hopefuls sought her hand in marriage. The Holy Prophet (SAW) was awaiting the
Divine order in this respect until Hazrat Ali (RA) approached him and asked for
her hand in marriage. The Holy Prophet (SAW) came to Fatima (RA) and asked,
"My daughter! Do you consent to be wedded to `Ali, as I am so commanded by
Allah?" Hazrat Fatima (RA) thereupon bowed her head in modesty. Umm
Salamah narrates the following: "Fatima’s face bloomed with joy and her
silence was so suggestive and conspicuous that the Holy Prophet (SAW) stood up
to shout: Allahu Akbar'!"
On Friday, Thul Hijja 1, 2 A.H., which corresponded to
28th May 25, 624 A.D. the marriage ceremony, took place. All the Muhajirun and Ansars of Medina assembled
in the mosque while Hazrat`Ali was seated before the Holy Prophet (SAW) with
all the ceremonious modesty of a bridegroom.
The Holy Prophet first recited an
eloquent sermon then declared: “I have been commanded by Allah to get Fatima
wedded to `Ali, and so I do hereby solemnize the matrimony between `Ali and
Fatima on a dower of four hundred mithqal of
silver.” Then he asked Imam Ali, "Do you consent to it, O Ali? "
"Yes, I do, O Holy Prophet of Allah!" replied Imam Ali (RA).
Then the Holy Prophet raised his hands
and supplicated thus: “O Lord! Bless both of them, sanctify their progeny and
grant them the keys of Your beneficence, Your treasures of wisdom and genius;
and let them be a source of blessing and peace to my umma.” Her children; Imam Hasan, Imam Hussain, Zainab and Umm
Kulthum, are well-known for their piety, righteousness and generosity. Their
strength of character and actions changed the course of history and fortified
Islam which otherwise would have been lost to mankind.
As a wife, she was very devoted. She never asked Hazrat Ali
(RA) for anything in her entire life. As a mother, she cared for and brought up
wonderful children; they have left their marks on the pages of world history
which time and the plots of enemies of Ahl al-Bayt (RA) will never be able to
erase.
A role model for
all Muslim women
Hazrat Fatima (RA) is famous and
acknowledged as the "Sayyidatu nisa '1-`alamin" (Leader of all the
women of the world for all times. For all the verses revealed in the Holy
Qur'an for women, Hazrat Fatima (RA) is the perfect model, who translated every
verse into action. In her lifetime, she was a complete woman, being Daughter,
Wife and Mother at the time.
Hazrat Fatima (RA) inherited the genius
and wisdom, the determination and will power, piety and sanctity, generosity
and benevolence, devotion and worship of Allah, self-sacrifice and hospitality,
forbearance and patience, knowledge and nobility of disposition of her
illustrious father, both in words and in actions. “I often witnessed my
mother,” says Imam Husain, "absorbed in prayer from dusk to dawn."
Her generosity and compassion for the
poor was such that no destitute or beggar ever returned from her door
empty-handed. She (RA) worked, dressed, ate and lived very simply. She was very
generous; and none who came to her door ever went away empty handed. Many times
she gave away all the food she had had, staying without any food at all. As a
daughter, she loved her parents so much that she won their love and regard to
such an extent that the Holy Prophet (SAW) used to stand up whenever she came
to him.
The Prophet (SAW) taught Hazrat Fatima (RA) divine knowledge and endowed her with special intellectual
brilliance, so much so that she realized the true meaning of faith, piety, and
the reality of Islam. But Fatima (RA) also was a witness
to sorrow and a life of anguish from the very beginning of her life. She
constantly saw how her revered father was mistreated by the unbelievers and
later how she herself fell a victim to the same abuse, only this time by some
“Muslims”.
Hazrat Asiya (AS),
wife of the Pharaoh
“And for those who
have faith Allâh has set forth a parable in the (story) of Fir’aun’s wife when
she prayed: O my sustainer! Build for me a mansion in paradise by You and save
me from Fir’aun and his doings and save me from all evil doing people.”
When the magicians fell into sajdah and declared their faith
in Allâh and accepted Mûsa (AS) as the Nabî of Allâh – the wife of Fir’aun also
declared her faith. Fir’aun began punishing her by pegging her to the ground
and exposing her to the midday sun. Whenever he turned away from her the angels
would give her shade with their wings. He then gave her a choice: ‘Either
retract from your belief or be prepared to be crushed by a huge boulder.’ She
chose to be crushed. As she was placed onto the ground she raised her sight
towards the sky -she saw her place in Jannah and prayed: “O my sustainer! Build
for me a mansion in paradise by You and save me from Fir’aun and his doings and
save me from all evil doing people. As she said this, her rûh left her body and
the boulder then crushed her lifeless body.
Hazrat Asiya (AS) also known as Asiya
bint Muzahim, is respected by Muslims as one of the greatest women of all
time. She was the wife of the Pharaoh ("Fir'awn"), who reigned
during Hazrat Musa's (AS) time. The Qur'an registers her as a
great person and she is respected all the more by Muslims as she was married to
one of the most evil men in history, but never lost faith in God and
remained steadfast in prayer and belief. She declared her faith in the message
of God after witnessing the miracle of Moses in the Court of Pharaoh and after
witnessing the death of another believing woman under torture. Pharaoh tried to
turn her away from the God of Moses and sought her mother's help. But Asiya
refused to reject the God of Moses. On Pharaoh's order, she was tortured to
death.
Hazrat Muhammad (SAW) is said to
have mentioned her as one of the four greatest women of all time,
alongside Mary, the mother of Jesus, Hazrat Muhammad's (SAW) first
wife Khadija (RA), and his daughter Hazrat Fatimah (RA).
Her Character
Hazrat
Asiya (AS) was the wife of the Pharaoh. a malicious person, but she was a virtuous
and believing woman who accepted the faith that Moses and Aaron were
preaching. Although she had exceeding wealth, she was not arrogant like the
Pharaoh. She realized that faith in God was far more important and
was thus exalted by God amongst the women of her generation.
Fall of blessing
in the lap of Hazrat Asiya
Asiya
and her maids were at the neighbouring Nile River one day. To their
amazement, they found a crate floating in the river. Asiya immediately ordered
the crate to be brought out on shore. Although the maids thought there was a
treasure in the crate, they in fact found a baby boy inside. Asiya instantly
fell in love with him and knew that this boy, Moses, was no ordinary baby.
She told the Pharaoh about the baby and convinced her husband to allow the baby
to live with them. The wife of Pharaoh said: "(Here is) joy of the eye,
for me and for thee: slay him not. It may be that he will be use to us, or we
may adopt him as a son." And they perceived not (what they were doing)!
(Qur'an 28:9)
Hazrat
Asiya (AS) then offered Moses' mother to live in their household as
Moses' wet nurse and paid her for her services, being unaware
that the wet nurse was Moses' mother. Thus, mother and son were reunited
again.
The tradition holds that Hazrat Asiya
worshipped God in secret and praying in disguise fearing her husband. She died
while being tortured by her husband, who had discovered her monotheism.
A sincere beleiver
It
is said that Hazrat Asiya was a sincere believer and that she fully submitted
herself to God, despite being the wife of Pharaoh. According to Hadith,
she will be among the first women to enter Paradise because she accepted
Moses's monotheism over Pharaoh's beliefs. The Qur'an mentions Asiya
as an example to all Muslim.
And
God sets forth, as an example to those who believe the wife of Pharaoh: Behold
she said: 'O my Lord! Build for me, in nearness to Thee, a mansion in the
Garden, and save me from Pharaoh and his doings, and save me from those that do
wrong':—Qur'an, chapter 66 (At-Tahrim), verse 11
Conclusion
These four women changed the course of human history,
through their resolution, faith and courage. Hazrat Miryam (AS) life was
characterized by piety, chastity and faith, Hazrat Khadija (RA) neither capitulated
to the trappings of wealth, nor to power and fame, Hazrat Fatima (RA) made tolerance
in the face of unending hardships and was crowned the ‘leader of all women in
Jannah’, whilst the wife of Fir’aun Hazrat Asiya (AS) chose faith over royalty.
These were women distinguished by patience who found the true friendship of
Allâh through their unfailing steadfastness in the face of grinding sacrifices.
May Allâh grant our women the privilage
to follow the beautiful conduct of
these icons of virtue, humility and
courage.