The prophet's (SAW) nurse
Hazrat Halima as-Sa'diyah (RA)
Breast-feeding of babies by nurse women
and allowing such babies to grow up in the deserts are some of the signs of
nobility and high status among the Arabs of pre-Islamic era. Hazrat Halima
Sadia was such a nurse who came to Makkah, in the company of some women from
the clan of Banu Sa'd, hoping to find babies to nurse. Each woman except Halima
succeeded in getting a nursling. Halima said: "There was no woman among us
who was not offered the Messenger of Allah (SAW), and, as soon as she was told
that he was an orphan, she would reject
him. We would say, 'What is his mother going to give us?' For, we only expected
recompense from the baby's father.
By Allah, each of my colleagues was
able to get a nursling except me. But when I did not succeed in getting any for
myself, I told my husband, al-Harith ibn 'Abdul-'Uzza, 'By Allah, I would not
like to be the only one from among my colleagues who would go back home without
a nursling. I am going to take that orphan boy.' My husband said, 'You can go
and take him. Perhaps, Allah will bless us through him.' I went and took the
boy. By Allah, I only took him because I could not find any other."
Hazrat Halima (RA) continued: "As
soon as I took him and brought him to my riding animal, I breast-fed him as
much as Allah would permit and he drank until he was satisfied. His brother
also drank until he was quenched. My husband then went to our old camel and
milked her and both of us drank until we were satiated. And we passed a good
night. In the morning, my husband told me, "Halima, by Allah, I could see
that you have accepted a blessed child. Can't you observe the blessings we have
been witnessing since we took him, and Allah continued to increase us in
blessing?!" We set out on the return journey back to our village. By
Allah, my camel was so fast that none of those of my colleagues could catch up
with her. Surprised at this, they said, "Daughter of Abu Dhu' ayb! Was
this not your camel on which you set out with us?!" I said, "Yes, by
Allah, she is!" They then said, "By Allah, there is something about her!"
When we arrived at the land of Banu
Sa'd and before that, I did not know a land more barren that our land - my
sheep would graze and then come home satisfied and full of milk. We would milk
as we liked, and none of our neighbors could be able to have even a drop of
milk from their own sheep. Their sheep would go out grazing and would come home
with empty stomachs. They would then tell their shepherds, "You should
consider where the sheep graze." Yet their sheep would come back with
empty stomachs while mine would come home satisfied, and we would milk as we
liked.
So, Allah continued to show us the
blessings that we could clearly perceive. The boy, Muhammad (SAW), then reached
age two and he had been growing up in a way different from that of other kids.
By Allah, he had hardly reached the age of two that he had already had strong
skin. We took him back to his mother, though we were consumed with grief that
we would be losing the blessing he had brought to our household. When his
mother saw him, we told her, "Please let our son stay with us for another
year. For, we fear for him the epidemic of Makkah."
We continued pleading with her until
she released him to us. Two or three months after we brought him back, an
incidence occurred. He and his foster brother were in the back-yard with our
sheep when his brother hurriedly came to us and said: ''That my Qureshi brother
was visited by two men, clad in white garments. They laid him on his back and
opened his belly."
His stepfather and I rushed to him. We
found him standing while his colour has changed. His father embraced him and
said: "My son, what happened to you?" He said, "Two men in white
garment came to me.
They laid me down and opened my belly.
They removed something out and took it away. They then returned it as it
was." We took him back home. His father said: "Halima, I fear that my
son has been touched by (the Jinn). So, let us take him back to his family
before what we fear can appear." Halima continued: "So we took him to
his mother. When she saw us, she exclaimed, 'What brought you back, foster
parents?! You had been taking an excellent care of him! , We said, 'By Allah,
nothing has happened. It is only that Allah has helped us pay our debts and we
fear that some harm or unforeseen things might happen to him.
That is why we brought him back.' But
his mother did not believe us. She insisted that we tell her the truth and when
we told her what had happened, she said, 'So you fear that he might be touched
by Satan?! No, by Allah! Satan will never be able to find his way to him. By
Allah, there is something great about this son of mine. Shall I tell you something
about him?' We said, 'Yes.' She said, 'When I was pregnant with him, I never
felt carrying anything that was lighter than him. I saw it in my dream that a
light came out of me that illuminated the palaces of Syria. And
when I gave birth to him, his delivery was different from that of other babies; he came out, supporting himself with both hands and raising his head up to the heaven. So, leave him alone.'"
when I gave birth to him, his delivery was different from that of other babies; he came out, supporting himself with both hands and raising his head up to the heaven. So, leave him alone.'"
Thus did Lady Halima part with her
great nursling. The Messenger of Allah (SAW) later in his life, talked about
this unique childhood in which he extraordinarily understood things, pictures
and names while he was at the dwellings of Banu Sa'd. A number of his
Companions (RA) narrated the events of this childhood.
At the end of the Battle of Hunayn, when the Messenger of Allah (SAW) got properties and captives from Hawazin as spoils of war, a delegation from Hawazin, who had already embraced Islam came to him at a place called Ji'ranah. They said: "Messenger of Allah, we are a tribal people who had been touched with an affliction that is not unknown to you. Please grant us favor, Allah will grant you favor." There was among the captives, his foster sister, Shayma'. So she came, begging him to show compassion. She reminded him of how he bite her on her back (while he was still a nursling at the dwellings of Banu Sa'd). When the Messenger of Allah (SAW) heard this, he laid down his garment for her and made her sit down beside him.
At the end of the Battle of Hunayn, when the Messenger of Allah (SAW) got properties and captives from Hawazin as spoils of war, a delegation from Hawazin, who had already embraced Islam came to him at a place called Ji'ranah. They said: "Messenger of Allah, we are a tribal people who had been touched with an affliction that is not unknown to you. Please grant us favor, Allah will grant you favor." There was among the captives, his foster sister, Shayma'. So she came, begging him to show compassion. She reminded him of how he bite her on her back (while he was still a nursling at the dwellings of Banu Sa'd). When the Messenger of Allah (SAW) heard this, he laid down his garment for her and made her sit down beside him.
The spokesman of the delegation,
Zuhayr ibn Sard then stood up and said: "Messenger of Allah, your aunts
and foster mothers who took care of you are among the captives that are inside
the enclosures. If we had nursed Ibn Abi Shammar or Nu'man ibn Mundhir and then
what happened to us from your part had happened to us from theirs, we would
definitely hope in their reciprocal kindness and sympathy. And you are the best
ofthose nursed by any foster mother." He then recited a poetic passage in
which he implored the Prophet (peace be upon him) to do favor to his foster
people.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) then said, "As for that which is for me and the children of' Abdul-Muttalib, it is all for Allah and for you." The Ansar (the Helpers) then said, "Whatever belongs to us is for Allah and His Messenger!" That day was, indeed, a day of reciprocal kindness; and the stand took on that day was a stand that represented greatness and excellent moral quality!!! Muhammad went back to the warmness of his mother's bosom and unto the compassionate care of his grandfather, 'Abdul-Muttalib. He had then become a young boy in whose noble face lights were illuminating, whose appearance brought splendor, whose heart was filled with signs of guidance and transparence and whose tongue was characterized with tenderness and sweetness. For, he was being nurtured by Allah, the Exalted.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) then said, "As for that which is for me and the children of' Abdul-Muttalib, it is all for Allah and for you." The Ansar (the Helpers) then said, "Whatever belongs to us is for Allah and His Messenger!" That day was, indeed, a day of reciprocal kindness; and the stand took on that day was a stand that represented greatness and excellent moral quality!!! Muhammad went back to the warmness of his mother's bosom and unto the compassionate care of his grandfather, 'Abdul-Muttalib. He had then become a young boy in whose noble face lights were illuminating, whose appearance brought splendor, whose heart was filled with signs of guidance and transparence and whose tongue was characterized with tenderness and sweetness. For, he was being nurtured by Allah, the Exalted.